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In March 2016, at the age of 35, I was diagnosed with Stage IV stomach cancer. Only 3% of patients live 5 years or longer after receiving this diagnosis. Most die within the first year. I have a beautiful wife and two young children. This blog chronicles my experiences with cancer and the lessons I learn along the way.

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Chemotherapy begins tomorrow; biopsy update

I just wanted to write a quick update and to again thank all of you who have been praying for us and encouraging us over the past weeks.

Last Thursday I met with my local oncologist (Dr. Thudi) here in Irving to discuss the chemotherapy regimen suggested by my team at MD Anderson Cancer Center. Dr. Thudi provided me with the results from the tests on my lymph node biopsy tissue - they indicate that I am not HER2 positive, nor am I a candidate for immunotherapy. MD Anderson will be conducting similar tests on the direct biopsy of the stomach tumor, but given these results, it is very unlikely that my specific cancer will benefit from any of the targeted treatments that currently exist for gastric cancer.

Dr. Thudi also scheduled an MRI for Monday morning (4/11) to examine the tumor in my nasal cavity once more to make sure it's not something that the chemotherapy will exacerbate. There is a small possibility that the nasal cavity tumor is not a tumor at all, but a fungal ball. Hopefully, the MRI will provide good evidence one way or the other about the nature of the nasal cavity growth. My first chemotherapy treatment has been scheduled for Monday (4/11) at 11:00 am. I will have blood tests and a health check during the first hour, then the two-hour infusion of the Oxaliplatin. I will receive a pack with the 5-Fluorouracil which I will carry around for two days to complete the 48 hour infusion. In addition to the chemo drugs, I will receive pre-medications containing anti-nausea drugs, steroids, and other pharmaceuticals to minimize the side-effects of the chemo. This regimen will continue every 14 days. In mid-June, I will go back to MD Anderson for CT scans and blood tests to see whether there is any progress toward shrinking the tumor.

On Friday, I had surgery to insert the Mediport right under my left shoulder blade, which allows delivery of the chemotherapy drugs directly into my aorta. Future blood draws and injections can all be done through this port, minimizing the need to continually poke me in the arms and hands during procedures. 

Over the past few weeks, I have been reflecting on the Biblical story of Ruth. In the story, Ruth ends up leaving her home country of Moab with Naomi, her mother-in-law, to live in a country that is not her own. Both of them have lost their husbands and are living in a culture where unmarried women are not valued. Ruth essentially ends up begging for food in the fields of Naomi's distant relatives so the two of them can survive. It's a tragic point in the story. Certainly, both Naomi and Ruth must have wished that their husbands had survived, that events had turned out differently so they weren't merely scraping by on the kindness of others. Of course, those who know the story of Ruth know that she eventually married Boaz, the owner of the field she was gathering grain in behind the harvesters. Ruth does find a happy ending to the tragic story. What struck me most about this story, though, was how Ruth never got to see the larger picture of how the tragedy of losing her family and finding herself in poverty in a foreign country was used by God. Ruth never knew that her great-grandson was King David - the greatest of all the kings of Israel. Further, she never knew that even further down from David, that her lineage would include the Messiah, Jesus Christ, through whom all the families of the world would be blessed.

As much as I wish events had turned out differently and as dificult as it is to accept the tragedy of this cancer in my family, the story of Ruth challenges me to trust that God has a bigger picture in view - one that I may never see, but one that I know is there. God will not waste my cancer. He has a plan and a purpose for it. Already, I can see the ways that this cancer has changed my perspective and my behaviors - pushing me to value every single moment, making the most of every opportunity.

Melissa and I continue to be so grateful for the encouragement that we receive from all of you. Those of you who are praying for us, please consider the following requests this week:

  • That the side-effects of the chemotherapy would be minimal, allowing me to continue to work and provide for my family.
  • For unusual efficacy of the chemotherapy regimen against my particular cancer.
  • That God would teach me what He has for me to learn through this experience.

Thank you all.

 

 

 

 

Reader Comments (7)

Rob and Melissa. Your strength through this very difficult challenge is very encouraging. We will continue to pray for you and Co tinge to ask for God's guidance to those treating you and also for minimal side effects, shrinking of the tumor and comfort to you. Love you.

April 10, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterAunt Kathie

Rob and Melissa. Your strength through this very difficult challenge is very encouraging. We will continue to pray for you and Co tinge to ask for God's guidance to those treating you and also for minimal side effects, shrinking of the tumor and comfort to you. Love you.

April 10, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterAunt Kathie

Rob and Melissa, you and your family are in my prayers every night. and I have been going to a bible study group and I have learned also. I have learned a lot and one thing is that God will give us a miracle even if we don't ask, he knows what we need. I also want you guys to read Psalm 91 read it slowly. It helps us all. Please take care of your selves.

April 10, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterAunt Ann Brannon

Rob,
Thanks for sharing this journey with the many people that care about you and your family. I know I haven't reached out in writing yet, but Ashley and I have had you guys very much on our minds and in our prayers since your discovery of this cancer. In a very small way, we share in some of the many emotions you must be having. Admittedly, I've even felt a little angry at God for allowing this. But while I was feeling this, you - who are the one going through it - have been holding on to hope in God and praising Him for His plans and purpose in your pain. You have been an amazing testimony of grace and unwavering faith in the face of such a trial. I am daily challenged by the strength of your faith and your testimony. We are praying earnestly for you, Melissa, and the kids as you go through this together and praying for you as you take the next steps in your treatment. May His power be made perfect in your weakness, brother.

April 10, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterKyle Hiestand

Rob
Thank you for your update!! It's so encouraging to see that you are relying on God's word!! The story of Ruth just took on a whole new meaning for me. I'm going to share it with my nephew Bobby Faulder as he battles for his life against cancer. I will be praying for you and your family and specifically on the points you shared. God bless you in your journey!!!

April 11, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterKaren (stiles)Perrine

We love you! Fight that good fight! I thank God that your time is not short but that in then end, it will be only the beginning and all of this will be made untrue. 10,000 years from now, we will remember this as a vague memory and then maybe have something good to eat and reflect on all God did. Thanks for the reminder in Ruth.

April 11, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterChad and Erin

Robert,
I am a friend of your mother. I used to work with her.
I was very blessed to read your blog. I will be praying for you and your family, specifically your requests.
We have a good friend by the name of Byron Leavitt, who has been going through cancer issues as well. He has written and published an encouraging book called, The Cancer Diaries. It's available on Amazon. He is also a man of faith, like yourself. Probably around your age with a wife and small children. The book might be an encouragement to you.
Once again, I will be praying for you,
Jill Green

April 14, 2016 | Unregistered CommenterJill Green

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